Showersex, it's good for you

On the off chance that people who don't already know me happen to read this blog, I should explain something. I am polyamorous and so is J. I might write more about this topic some other time but for now I just urge to go read the link if you're wondering something, or ask me in the comments, that certainly works too. Why am I bringing this up now? Well, I wanted to write about my day and it happened to involve J's other partner whom I usually refer to only as Q.

So what happened today? After studying for a full day we decided to relax in the shower, all three of us. This was at our university, they have a couple of small shower rooms in the cellar that are free to use. We spent almost two hours in there. Most of the time we were just being lazy and enjoying the water but we also spent some time on productive things like oral sex and shaving. Poor J doesn't stand a chance against Q and me when we team up.

I really love sex in the shower, it's hot and literally steamy. You can also be messier than you'd normally be in a bed, I don't remember when it started but J and I have a habit of bringing the frying oil from the kitchen in there. Getting oiled up is definitely something I recommend, not only does it feel nice, it also look cool. Water behaves differently on oily skin, it's quite pretty. I'm sure I don't need to point out the obvious lubricating benefits as well, don't use oil on condoms though, it makes them more prone to break. It's also the only place where we regularly have sex standing up. Being fucked against a wall or made to bend over is plain awesome in my book, especially when my dear J is being rough.

It's also a pretty good place for trying anal sex. 

 

 

 

I also mentioned shaving, didn't I? I don't find shaving large parts of my body the be particularly worthwhile but I do try to keep a few, namely two, areas clean shaven. One is my armpits, it's really become a habit more than anything. It only takes a few seconds of my shower to run a razor over them anyway. The other is my cunt. I don't shave all my pubic hair though, I'm actually rather fond of my bush. But below that I've been trying to keep it shaven, personally I like both the feel of hair and smooth skin but J prefers it smooth when he goes down on me. I don't mind keeping it smooth for him and it does look rather kinky.

Secret Candy

A little more than three years ago when I was still young and, relatively, innocent I started to explore the wondrous world of blowjobs. I still remember how nervous I was before my first time. I wanted to surprise J when we showered so I hadn't talked to him beforehand. I kept telling myself to just do it but I was very nervous. What if I did it wrong? How was I supposed to know how to do it? Eventually I mustered enough courage to get down on my knees and rock his world. Then I swallowed. Quite ambitious for a first timer maybe but I just assumed that's how it's done.

I let him come in my mouth a few more times before calling it off. I didn't much like the feel or taste of semen. I figured it was a small loss, I could still give great blowjobs without that part. That was a long time ago now and my tastes have grown and changed a lot in this time, yet I never questioned this particular decision. Not even as I found myself enjoying the occasional bukkake or other semen related porn videos, I'd simply made up my mind, it wasn't my thing.

Luckily I decided to re-evaluate my position on this recently. I'm still not sure how I feel about performing the act itself but the thought of it is enough to make me tingly. I love blowjobs and I'd love not having to break off towards the end. It also strikes me as a very submissive act and that just makes me all the more eager to do it. The thought of J forcing me to do it, after prior consent of course, is even more tantalizing.

J was his usual cooperative self when I brought this to his attention. We've tried it a few times and I think it's something I'll have to work on. It doesn't actually taste bad or good, it's a strangely neutral taste that still manages to taste of something. I know several things can influence the taste and I've been buying J a lot of juice lately, so there's another experiment I'll have to keep track of. I think it's mostly a question of just getting used to the texture and taste though.

On a more humorous note. We made a deal that every time I let him come in my mouth I get a special kind of candy. It's called Kick and it's a kind of delicious liquorice toffee. I got one yesterday and I've been feeling adventurous lately so we'd better stock up on them.

Yay, spankings!

J did come home and he did indeed give me a celebratory spanking. I'm actually still quite new to being spanked so I can honestly say that's the hardest I've ever been spanked. My ass is very red, I even have a welt or two. That's my first welt actually, I'm rather proud of it. J's becoming better at it as well, he played mind games with me this time. It was horrible, in a good way.

He tends to have one hand on my ass and this time around he used the other to hold my head down by my collar. He tends to just rest his hand on my ass, stroking it between spanks, and then when I feel how he lifts it I know I'm about to get spanked. I tense up, hold my breath and try not to flinch but then, occasionally, there's no spank. He just lowers his hand back down gently and I have to release the breath I'm holding and relax without the pain. He made me laugh several times when he did it. It wasn't a happy laugh but more of a nervous giggle as I tried to calm down from having my expectations crushed.

That's pretty much how we did it except that we were on a sofa.
I do like being comfortable even as I'm being spanked.

I loved every time he did it actually. He was demonstrating his power and dominance over me. He was toying with me. Every time he didn't spank me it was as if he was saying "I can give you what you want but I'll only do it when it pleases me. Right now I just want to watch you squirm.", it was incredible. I hope I have bruises in the morning, I love it when he leaves marks on my body.

As I sat down afterwards I squirmed a little as I realized that my ass is sore. That's another first and how goddamn hot isn't that?

Just a quick post

I know this blog was just created and maybe it's too early for quick posts but tonight I only have time for celebrations. I had my first exam today, a math exam. I really didn't know how it was going to go this morning but now I'm fairly confident that I did well. There were certainly things I didn't know and couldn't answer but at least I won't have to redo it. [Insert happy smiley]

I'm alone at J's place at the moment and I'm determined to get drunk. While I have a fairly positive attitude towards drugs I don't use them all that often but tonight I'm going to let loose, it helps that I have no lectures tomorrow. I don't even mind being alone for now, it only means I can listen to my kind of music without shame. I've noticed that music becomes very..relevant to me when I'm drunk. Not quite better than sex but damn it's good. I would appreciate it if J came home and gave me a celebratory spanking though. I've never been spanked while drunk, I think I could take more than when sober, especially considering that I've been feeling very spankable ever since I finished the exam.

Now that I think about it, I'm drunk already. It's one of the perks of being short, 1.6m, you need less of everything to get affected by it. I should probably leave this here while I can still spell. Life is good and music is awesome.

Do blowjobs cure headaches?

J is my lovingly dominant and sadistic partner of 3 and a half years. Earlier today he laid down on the sofa next to me and complained about having a headache. I snuggled him for a while and suggested we go upstairs to cuddle in bed for a while, in the back of my mind I had the sneaky plan to give him a blowjob to make him feel better. Unfortunately he didn't want to go upstairs right then but a little while later he asked if I wanted to give him a blowjob. Clearly great minds think alike.

We decided to perform a scientific study of the question "Do blowjobs cure headaches?". So we went upstairs and I started giving him an amazing blowjob, and I really do mean amazing. I've had more than 3 years of practice when it comes to pleasing J orally and I take great pride in my skill. Unfortunately the results of the first trial in the study were inconclusive. I imagine I'll be called upon again some time to continue this study. This does however give me a great excuse to talk more about oral sex.

I really love giving blowjobs. Not only do they give immense pleasure to my dear J but they also make me incredibly horny. Now then, about a month ago I decided to learn how to deepthroat and J has been very generous in helping me practice. I can take him pretty deep but I'm not quite an expert yet and sometimes my throat gets a little sore from it, which I take as a sign that I'm not doing it quite right. One thing I never considered before trying it myself is that there's pretty much a 90 degree angle between your mouth and your throat. Unless you have a flexible penis this poses quite an obvious problem but luckily there's also an obvious answer, lean your head back. I've found that on my knees and the 69 position work best for taking it deep whereas snuggled up between J's legs, my favourite position for oral sex, only works to a lesser extent.

Then there's the gag reflex. Learning to suppress it  took less time than expected and I'm getting pretty good at it. It still strikes occasionally when there's a lot of moving around but even then it's muted and not so bad. An interesting fact about deep throating is that it even produces it's own lube. I'm not familiar with the mechanics behind it but having things down your throat makes you produce some kind of really thick spit which works awesomely as lube. Try and remember that in case you're ever unexpectedly out of lube.

That's pretty much the gist of where I'm at with my deep throating project, and now apparently headache curing project. If I make any progress I'll be sure to write about it here and if any of you readers happen to have any personal experience with this kind of headache remedy, feel free to share. More data is always good in a study.

My Sexual Ambitions

I have three exams in the next three weeks so all things considered I picked a pretty bad time to start this blog. Then again I haven't even decided how often I'm going to try and write here yet..

Anyway, the point of this post was to introduce one of the topics I plan to write about, sexual ambitions. It's quite a vague title really but that's fine as I plan to include a couple of different things in it. The three things that I can think of right now are sexual skills I want to improve, sexual skills I want to acquire and sexual practices I want to try. I pretty much just plan to record my progress as I work on things that fall under those headings.

And what, you ask, might these things be? Here's a nice and quick list  to summarize three of my current ambitions.

• Deep throating - a skill to improve.
• Anal sex - a skill to acquire.
• Rope bondage - a practice to try.

Expect some sort of status/progress post about those soon/eventually/whenever I get around to it. I'll probably also write about general things connected to my naughty life, like sex toys and submissiveness.

Oh, and apparently today is Little Christmas, some sort of obscure pagan holiday. It seems I'll be celebrating this thing for the rest of today.

Hello world

Or more accurately, hello the few people whom I've revealed this blog to so far.
So, this is interesting. I've never had a blog before. I'm not entirely sure about the scope of things I'll be writing about here yet but the original idea was to make it about my sex life, so whatever happens, expect sex.

The inspiration for this blog came mainly from Shelby Cross' blog and my dear friend Tourist. So whatever happens, blame him.

I'm still wrapping my head around how this blogging service works so the formatting might change back and forth a few times and such before I'm satisfied with how it looks. Right now my plan is to get something written in the "about me" box that should be to the right of this and work out a nice heading.

I rather like "Me, myself, and my sex life." though.