Today I went to my first munch, basically a social, no-play meet up for kinksters. I was quite nervous when I got to the café but people were very welcoming. There were five kinksters when I got there but then I left, two and a half hours later, there were closer to twenty.
It was quite pleasant. I mostly just listened to other people talk but I managed to partake in a few conversations as well. It seems my city has quite a vibrant BDSM community. Though I tend to be fairly socially introverted IRL I'm feeling quite optimistic about becoming part of this community. This munch is a weekly event and I will definitely try to attend next week's. It seems I'll be trying out a couple of new things soon so I'll probably have plenty to talk about by then as well.
Yes, new things. J and I were eating out the other day, asian food, when he voiced a sudden urge to pour warm wax on me. Undoubtedly he was inspired by the small candle on our table. My homework for that evening was to research wax play. There was more to it than I had initially expected but after some inventorying I concluded that we actually had all the adequate equipment. There wasn't time for it that evening but I expect we'll get around to it soon, possibly tomorrow. Take note though, do your homework properly if you're interested in wax play, there are plenty of risks involved.
Another thing which has caught my fancy as of late is play involving clothespins. I've never tried clothespins before but I'm curious and eager to try them. I bought a pack of them today and hopefully J will be in the mood to try them out on me tonight.
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